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إِنَّ اللّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ. Sabr  k raaz jub khulne lagy muj py Muje ksi cheez py phr sbr krna hi nhn prah.. Muje bohaat dair bs yehi lagta Raha k insan ko sbr krna prhta h kabi ajar k liye to kabi badly k liye..magr muje kabi ye khayal aya hi nhn k sabr to bs Allah k liye hota ye to uska sath pany k liye hota h iski mithaas to srf wo janty hn jinhen ye pata chal jata h sbr krne walon k Sath Allah hota h..or Jin k Sath Allah hota h uny phr kia hi jaza or makafat ka khyal rehta h...sbr ki Jo definitions hm ny Rati hn un se hm yehi sikhty hn k sbr kr lo tme sb mil jye ga lekan Quraan k mutabiq sbr walon ko Allah milta h or jisy Allah mil jye usky liye Dunia or janat phr maini nhn rakhti..han ye bat blkl theek h k Allah ki trf se ataon ki brishyh us py hotin hn Lekin wo sb secondary ho jti hn jesy ak payasy ko dood ka payala brh k sair kia jye or kaha ye k ye Pani b h to phr usky liye Pani Jo value hoti h blkl usk insn k liye dusri cheezon ki value ho jati h...agr hm apni histor...

  Mein Eid ki Namaz prh k thori dyr se ghr louta socha sub se Eid mil lu to hi ghr jaon ga mgr meri is hrkat ne Janb ka mood thora khrab kr dia wo kitchen main kam kr rhi thi m salam lne or sb se Eid Mubarak k bd Room m chala gya ye soch k,k wo Masroof hn kuch dyr beth k intezar krta rha mgr wo nhn ai phr socha kitchen main hi mil lta hun mein jesy hi kitchen m enter hwa wo kitchen se bhr nkl gae or room m chli gae main 2 mint tk to smjh nhn ska phr Khyal aya k mamla koi or h..jesy hi Room m gya wo bethi Apni churion ko ghumaty ghumty kahin khoi hui thi Ehsas ho gya k wo narz h khomoshi se bs pas beth gya..Khairyt hai..?Eid nhn mlni..?Apko kuch chahiye? G..chahiye to..wo ak dam se khari hui..m hth pkra to boli m chnge kr k kitchen m hi ja rhi hun ap bta dyn kia khaen gy...Kia hwa change q m to abi ghor se dekha tk nhn..thori c bhari hui awaz m boli g janti hun..M ghoor se dekha to udasi se ankhyn bhri huin thin..kia hwa..?kuch nhn bs ase hi..Narz hn..?Nhn ap kia khaen gy..?Am sorry...

 Main Rishton ko kbi b bandne ka Qail nhn Rha hmesha yehi sochta hun k ye ehsas dilne ki nhn ehsas hne ki cheez h agr ehsas dilya jye to ak br hi dilya jye agr br br usy refresh krna pry to wo tawaja hasil krne wli bt h or twaja kbi b ak jga nhn rehti wo sfr krti h aj ap py to kl kahin or hmesha dil ko bndhne ka kail rha hun dil ko bndhne k liye lafzon ki b zarort nhn hti bs ak suchy jazby se ksi ki nzr hi wo kamal kr jti h jo bri bri tmheedyn nhn kr patin agr ap pury dil se ksi ki trf rajhu kr jty hn to ye atal h k usky dil ko ap chu jyn gy or wo b wesy jazby ka mohtaj ho jye ga lkn is m b shrt h k wo dil ka ktna sucha h agr uske dil m wo suchai nhn jis suchai se ap usy chahty hn to phr wo rishta kbi b apka nhn rhy ga bdnaseeb insn h wo jo ksi suchy rishty ko neglect kr deta h behtr ki talash m ye to mjy nhn pta k wo behtr ko pa lta h ya nhn mgr wo anmool ko kho deta h..dil ki suchai se brh k kuch b nhn agr ksi insn ko dil ki suchai wla insm hasil ho jye to shaed hi us se brh k ko...

 Meri Udasion hn Besbab Bas Rahtoon ki baat thi  wo na de sky muje besbab main zaya hwa main bikhar gya koi ras hi nhi  rangni b dunia m bri tawja se socha rat brh besbab mery meyar ka koi q nhn mila kia main agya hon is jga besbab uny dekh k m khil utha muskra dia wo boly ye skhokhian q hn besbab ak roz wo mily jo to pochun ga kia meri udasian b hain besabab kabi kabi hmry Demag main shikwoon ka dyr hota hai mgr hum shikwa to bht door ki baat koi lafz b apni zuban se nhn nkalpaty k kahin meri ksi bat se koi dil na dukh jyemagr ase jazby wle log khud bht tqlif ka samna krty hai  khud se hi swal or khud hi jwb 😕 dena shaed ksi azab se kaam nhn hota zindgi main bohat sari talkhian zaaat se joorti nhn blke chipak jati hain jinka na to koi hal hota h na koi ilaj wakti toor py ap iny ignore to kr skty hain mgr ksi b choty bchy ki trah khud se door nhn kr skty or kbi kbi to hum adhi ho jty hain mahine yaa hafty main us talkhi k yaad any ka khud hi wait kr rhy hoty 🤷‍♂️ h...

 Purification of Heart jesy k hum sub janty hain dil insan ka sub se main or important organ hai lekin ak cheez shaed hr insan na janta ho k dil na sirf as a human being bht zarori organ hai blky Qurb.a.ILAHI pane k liye b sub se pehla organ yehi hai yani wanhan b yehi main hai..hmri Rooh bohat hi sada or pakiza cheez hai isky liye swaab or ghuna azab or inam sub kuch secondry hai isky liye sub se pehli cheez Allah pak hai q k ye wnahn se ai hai mera ye kehna  b sahi nhn k Allah pak se mil k ai hai q k mery ilam ka jazira itna wasee nhn k ye lafz bol sakun mgr itna hr ak insan janta hai k rooh Allah pak k pas se ai hai isy dunia m udr se beja gya hai jahan hmry demag ki rasai nhn hai q k demag insan ko samjh bojh k liye dia gya hai or baki body ko control krne k liye dia gya hai mgr  ak cheez hmre jisam main asi hai jisy hmra demag control nhn kr skta zabrdsti kr skta hai mgr control nhn wo hai dil q k dil ka conection directly hmri rooh k sath joor dia gya hai ...

 Meri Zid Wesy to seh jata hun sab Ap ki judai nhn seh pata Sab kehty hn bra khush mizaj h Ap k bin khush nhn reh pata Lrh leta hun sari dunia se akla Pr apki in do ankhon se lrh nhn pata Mery sath chalty rehn ap to main razi Ap jo aik pal ruk jyn to main chl nhn pata zid krta hun main bus ap se Q k ap k ilwa ksi ko itna chah nhn pata.. Meri kuch adtyn bohat kharb hain jesy k zid krna or wo itni buri hai k shaed hi ksi ko b pasnd ho mgr meri zid k pichy jo pyr hai wo kbi show nhn kr paya main bus us insan se zid krta hun jisy jan se b zyda chahta hun jisy apna smjhta hun jiski  khatir jita hun main hr ksi se zid nhn krta.😑.mera ye manna hai k jin se main Ase zid krta hun unka muqam bohat uncha hai meri zindgi main main khomosh rehna bohat pasnd krta hun q k jahan ap zid nhn kr skty wanhan khmosh ho jana bht bhtr amal h q k wanhan apki zid ko kbi b positive nhn lia jye ga positve bs wanhan lia jye ga jahan ap se pyr krne wly majood hon gy..baz o kat meri zid mani nhn jati ya s...

 Nazar ki udasi Tery bgair udas hain meri rooh ki khirkian b  tu dekh muqam apna tu kahan kahan Basa hai.. Bohat chota sa lafz hai udasi mgr is m kainat ki hr ronaq simat jati  hai agr ye bahr ajye.. udasi kisi b kisam ki ho wo apko hr cheez se do char kr de gi ap ko kahin b kuch b phir acha nhn lgy ga...kuch udasion ka taluq rooh se hota hai jub rooh udas ho jaati hai to samne puri dunia ki ronqyn b rkh di jyn beasr hain q k jub rooh udas ho ajti hai to uski udasi Allah pak se udasi ka saboot hota hai isi ka nam ishk.a.hakiki b hai mgr aj ka topic ishk a mijazee se relate krta hai..udasion ki bht kismy hain un m se ak kisam hai hai nazar ki udasi ab iska taluq b sidha dil se hai q k dil ka baas in do ankhon py sab se zyda chlata hai to isky har effect ko sab se pehle ankhyn hi bear krti hain..isi trah ankhon ki apni khawhish km hi hwa krti hai pichy dil hi hota hai..jub dil ksii se udas ho jye to ankhyn b udas ho jya krti hain bohat khubsurat nazry ak trf or inki maan pa...

 Wakt Ka Atbar ............ Wakt ka atbar krna or wakt ka atbar na hona blkl do alag cheezyn hain asi cheezyn jis main ngtive or positive dno hi ajty hain..pehle wakt ka atbar krne ko hum discus krty hain ye jumla sirf wo insan boly ga jo Allah py bra yakeen rkhta hai bht pukhta hai apne Allah se uska rishta wo kahy ga Allah pak sb behtr kr dyn gy usy is bat py yakeen hoga beshuk wo andr se tota hwa gira hwa mra hwa q na bn jye wo kahy ga Allah ki azmaish h beshuk Allah ki azmaishyn utra krti hain apne bndon py apni makhluq py apny pyaron py sab py r azmaish wahad cheez hai jis se allah pak ko bndy ki nhn blky bndy ko khud apni pehchan ho jat hai k uska asal kia hai..isi trah azmaishyn apky sth jury logon ka asal b bta dia krti hain k wo apky liye yan ap un k liye kia drja rkhty hain...to Wakt k atbar ka taluq Allah se achi dosti ka sabot hai...ab ase hi dusri trf wakt ka koi atbar nhn ko discus kr lty hain ye bat blkl such hai k wakt ki apni mrzi hwa krti hai ye ksi k kehne yan ki...

  Ranjhe ki Heer    Main such kehta hun k ranjha hun uska or wo meri heer hai wohi ranjha hun jo apni heer k deedar k liye jee rha hai wohi ranjhan jo kabi b apni heer se judah nhn hova wohi ranjha jiski ratan jis k din Apni heer k liye guzra krty hain mery liye wo ibadat ki trah hai pakiza hai blkl wesy jesy ibadat pakiza hoti hai main us k sath wady b krta hun mgr joth nhn bolta ye nhn kehta han krun ga dekhun ga main krta hun krna chahta hun har haal main han m us heer ko pany k liye din raat kam b krta hun main us heer ki hasi se zyda kuch b anmol nhn smjhta meri heer jainamz py bethi mery liye duaen magti hai matyn mangti hai mosoomiyat se kehti hai Allah pak usko slamat rkhna wo meri heer mery liye blkl wesy hai jesy bchy k liye chand hota hai jisy pany ki dekhne ki mehsos krne ki adat or khwahish sari zindgi rehti h khtam nhn hoti chahy wo baha brah b q na ho jye...main wo bacha nhn hun jo heer ko khilono ki trah mangy q k khilone bs dil behlaty hain tot jaty hain ...

   Mohabat k naaz tum utha nhn sko gi .. Tum shehzadi ho uski ghli k chkr lga nhn sko gi Ye rasty tumhry ghr se kai agy hain jana.. In raston m btak k wpis a nhn sko gi Chlo maan b lo kehna chor do zid .. Aik bar dil gnwa diya to wpis paa nhn sko gi kuch rasty ase b hoty hain jin py hum chlna nhn chahty mgr wo hmra muqdar hwa krty hain muhabat b un m se ak asa rasta hai lakh koshish kro lakh khud ko rok lo mgr na hi wo apko rukne de gi na khud ruky gi apko wnhn tk ly jye gi jahan jana kia dekhna b mumkin nhn hoga mohabat insan se wo sab krwne ka hunr rkhti h jo  usy sochna b pasnd nhn hota ye insan ko ak mnt m khak or ak mnt main asman ki sair krwa deti hai sub se bari bat mohabat k naaz hwa krty hain ye naaz ase hain jin k taswur se hi ap dar jyn k ye main kesy kr skta hun yan krun ga mgr ye ap se krwye gi or br br krwye gi dil k khelon m sub se pasndida mohabat ka kheil hai jaahn isy pta hai k ma har jaon ga wnhan b ye majbor krta hai k har m hi to maza hai..jaan ki baz...

Rahat c ak Nazar Insan k sath jhury lamhy agr bohat uljhno or taqlifon se brhy pry hain to ase b bohat se lamhe hain jin main maaan hai skoon hai mohabat hai apna pan hai khloos hai mithas hai suroor hai  or Rahat hai kisi se Mohabat ka iqrar b lazmi hai mgr ye 24 ghnty nhn kia ja skta yan phr 365 din nhn kia ja skta na hi isy jtya ja skta hai hr wakt na hi is m shrtyn rakhi ja skti hain han ynhan shrt se murad asi shart hai jo dusry insan ko mushkil main dal de yan uska skoon cheen lyn is k ilwa Mohaabt main ak dusry k liye bht c shrtyn ho sakti hain jesy ak Bivi apne shohar se ye shart rakh sakti hai k ap dhari rakhyn gy to main b hijab main raha krun gi ye shrt na sirf un dno ki mohabt importance ko  zahir kry gi balky Allah pak se Qurbat b brha de gi..to hr wakt hum ak situation main nhn reh skty mgr hum kisi k lamhon ko Rahat zaror bakhsh skty hain..Rahat se murad Situation k mutbik apni feelings ko dusron  tk ponhchna iski bohat c misalyn di ja sktin hain jesy Kisi ...

  Sehra main batak Gya    Jub insan kisi rasty main batak jaata hai to usky pas bohat options hty hain k wo wpis ja sky wo rasta poch sky ksii or rasty se ponhch sky mgr jub wo ksi sehra main batak jata hai to uske pas asa koi b option nhn hota k wo koi hal nkl sky wo na hi ksi se kuch poch skta hai na hi koi direction pta kr skta hai bus us wakt ak hi zaat hoti hai jis k kram se wo nikal skta hai.. usy bohat se khoof sta rhy hoty hain tofan k ajne ka khoof payas ka khoof kisi sehrai zehrily janwar ka khoof wo apni manzil se kai zayda apni jaan ka fikr mand ho jata hai  usy beyank treen mout ki fkr lg jati hai usy lgta hai jesy uski jan bs kisi b wakt main nikal li jye gi us wakt wo apni brdasht se kai zyda lrh prhta hai wo pyas brdash kr leta hai wo bokh se guzrta hai sehra ki tapish kisi py reham nhn krti wo batky huwe insno ko ase jala k rkh deti hai k wo kisi jalty hwe anghron m se guzr rhy hon hwaon ka zoor b us wakt sehra ka hi sath deta hai sab mil k insan k a...

      إهـدنـا الـصـراط الـمـسـتـقـيـم  Ihdina al-Sirat al-Mustaqim Naiki ki raah pe chlna asan hai yan mushkil..?ye swal hr us zehn m ata hai jo is rasty py chlne ki yan to koshish krta hai yan phr chlna shuru krta hai is rasty ka matlb Hai sidha rasta hr wo insan jo sidhy rasty ko apnna chahta hai wo tehry raston py chal rha hota hai ase rasty jo hume sidhy raston se batka dety hain to sb se pehli bat k ye shurwat main mushkil ho skta hai q k jb hum batak jaty hain or phr sidhy rasty py any ki koshish krty hain to humy dhondna prhta hai phr mushkil to paish aye gi hi mgr ak bar is rasty py chal prho to asnia mil jyn gi ab ynhn asnion ka mtlb ye b nhn k aram de zindgi yan ashisho aram is ka matlb ye hai k dubra btkne se bach jao gy yan jin raston se nkl k aye ho wo nhn dekhne pryn gy Allah pak ki zaat se duri ka dr khtam ho jye ga zehn bohat sari uljhno se bach jye ga mushkil se mushkil kam krty hwe ye ehsas nhn ho ga k main kuch ghlat kr rha hun yan phr wakt zya kr...

 Meri Wife❤ Baki mardon ki trah main b asa hi hun bivi k mamly m k wo jo b mjy de rhi hai mery liye kr rhi hai wo haq hai mera wo usy krna hi hai m uska kafil hun usky bdle main wo muje serve kry gi hi ye uski duty b hai or uski zarort b..mgr jesy hi wo mery smny ati hai chahry py muskrahat chahy ktni b uds q na ho srf mery liye ye uski duty nhn hai mera hath pkr k mjy dunia ka nayab treen mrd bna deti hai ye b uski duty nhn hai wo hr ak km apni chaht or meri mohbt main krti hai wo kbi nhn sochti k jo b kr rhi hai wo duty hai uski mera khyal rkhna uski zarort blkl b nhn hota muje khush krne k liye apni ana ko mr dena b uski zarort nhn ho sakta...baki mrdon ki trah m b sochta hun k achy khny achy kapry dila k thory se gfts de k m mahan bn gya m ny bht kuch kr dia usky liye mgr main is bt se anjan hota hun k m jo b kia apni mrzi se kia tb kia jb mjy lga k han krna chahiye mgr wo rooz krti hai bht se ase kam jo wo krna b nhn chahti mgr usky liye bus meri khushi zarori hai bki sb bymai...

 Kanch Ki Ghuria Main normal bachon ki  trah normal khilono se aj tak nhn khela mery khilono ki collection dekh k lgta tha jesy kisi scientist ki lab yan phr kisi carpenter ki shop yan phr kisi mechanic ki workshop wo sb khilone meri mrzi k thy kuch mery apne ijad kiye hwe or kuch ajeeb o greeb jagun se khridy hwe..khair ak din m apne Ami Abu k sath bahir gya rasty main muje ak choty se stall py ak kanch ki ghuria nazr agae wo muje itni pyri lagi k muje or kuch jesy acha hi nhn lga us pury tour py mera dehan usi ghuria py rha jb wpis aye to wo ghuria wanhn hi thi m ny bht himat kr k ami abu se demand ki k muje kanch ki wo ghuria lni hai pehly to bohat hyran hwe phr uno ny muje wo ly de chloo ab bachy ko chand hi mil gya ho jesy mery subah sham ab usi k sth guzra krty thy main us k liye itna pagl tha k school m b bethy muje wohi yad aya krti thi m usy bht smbhl k rkha krta tha meri or uski judai school ki timing wali hi hwa krti thi main bachon k sth khlne b kam hi jata tha bet...

 Jeene ki Waja zindgi mian sub se zyda zarori hai ehsas insan ki sb se bri kmzori b yehi hai or sb se bri taqat b yehi kisi b moor py thak jna or gir jana keh dena k bas main nhn chal skta ab bs hwa ye safr mery bas ki bat nhn..sirf ak lafz hai jo apko is muqam se utha k bhga skta hai or wo hai ehsas..iski ak choti c misal ase hai k ap ak sukhty hwe poday ko pani deny lag jyn usy do wakt ka pani dena  us k liye jiny ki waja bn jye ga wo phr se hara brha ho jye ga pta hai q k us pody k sth apka ehsas jurh gya or jin cheezon k sth ehsas jurh jye wo sukh k b hary rehty hain..blkl insan b ase hi hai wo sakht se sakht halat ka muqbala kr skta hai agr usky pichy ak ehsas krne wla majood ho wo zindgi ki koi jang nhn harta q k janta hai koi muntzir hai koi umeed m hai koi dua ghoo hai uski khatir..or isi k oposite agr dekha jye to ak hasta khelta khush bash insan apny wjood se tang a ajta hai agr usy ye khyal ajyn k usky liye kisi b dil main ehsas nhn hai wo apni zindgi k khatmay ka b...

Chirya jesy Dil..... Jab b narmi ki koi misal di jati hai to sab se pehly yehi bola jata hai k uska dil chirya jesa narm hai is bat py bohat hyrani hwa krti thi muje k akhir kia khas hai asa chirya k dil m jo insano k dil ko azeem bna deta hai agr wo chirya jesi nrmi ikhtyr kr lyn ynhan tak humry Payry Nabi  Hazart MUHAMMAD (ﷺ)  N ay b frma dia k " Jannat main wo log jyn gy jin k dil chirya ki trah narm hon gay"  .. T o ab to mera tajsus or b brh gya k pta kesy chly k dil chirya jitna nrm hai yan nhn na hi insono m rehti hai na hi iska koi wasta hai na koi lain dain jo andza kia ja sky...phr mian ny uski kuch khoobion py ghoor kia jis  waja se insono ko isky jesa raviya ikhtyr krne k liye kaha jata hai shaed us main asi kai khoobian hain mgr meri rasai in tak hi ho saki.. sub se pehly to ye k chirya k dil main khoof boht hai wo hr us cheez se drti hai jis se mna kia gya hai usy pakry jane ka bht khoof hai..ase hi agr insan apne andr ye khoof paida kr ly k uski pakr ...

muje jo mila teri inayat hai ay hamsafr  tu pas hai main khas hun tera shukria.. mri har hasi main teri mehak hai khil uthi jo meri zindgi tera shukria.. tu jo dekh ly muje payr se aik bar mery din ka hr lmha kahy tera shukria..  main Ass hun tu yakeen hai tuje keh rha hai mera honsla tera shukria.. muje ghuman nhn tha is skoon ka tune kr dia jo is se ashna tera shukria.. muje keh rahi hai meri zindgi  tuje mil gya hai tera rehnuma tera shukria..

 Dil ki Batain insan ki kuch feelings kuch alfaz ase b hoty hain jo kabi zuban py nhn aty unka shumar amm alfaz main hota b nh wo bohat hi khas hoty hain q k un m asi koi milawat nhn hoti jo zuban se ki jati hai unka taluq bs dil se hota hai ase alfaz hr koi sun b nhn skta is k liye samny asa insan betha hona chahiye jo khas dil ka malik ho jis main dil tak ponhchne ki kabliyat ho jisy ehsas ho k dil b alg se ak ehmiyt rkhta hai hasta hai rota hai beskoon hota hai purskoon hota hai iski ak alg dunia hai..magr asay insan hr  jga py nhn mil jty ase insan bry nayab hoty hain jo dilon ki kadr krty hain inky alfaz sunty hain inki darkan ko ehmyat dety hain..wrnna insno main ase insan b mil jty hain k cheekh cheekh btao wo nhn smjhyn gy wo nhn jany gy k iski kia feelings hain..narm dil wle logon ka muqam bra uncha hai ase logon ko Nabi pak   (ﷺ)  ny jaanat ki bshrat b de rkhi hai jin k dil chirya jesy narm hon gy wo hi janat main dakhil hon gy to socho dil ki nrmi ka ...

Wali Allah Wali Allah lafz or ehmiyat ko ly k aksar mery zehan main boht sary swaal aya krty thy k akhir asa kia hai is lafz main yan in logon mian jo inko itna braa Muqam de dia jata hai Allah pak in bndo k sth pasandida lafz lga dety hain ..phr smjh main agya k q hain ye itne pasndida Allah pak k liye...is dunia main sb se zyda mushqil kam hai khawhisht ko mar dena..sbr kr jana dil ko sidq jesy lafz k sth jor lena(sabr or sidq dno alg alg sifat hain sabr main insan tqlif ko brdash kr rha hota hai mgr uff tak nhn krta sehta h or sidq main usy tqlif ka koi andza hi nhn hota chahy wo tqlif ktni b aziyat nak q na ho wo faisly py puri trah mutmain hota hai or shukr ada krny main ak pal b nhn lgata)..dil ko bndon or dunia k liye saaf kr lna apni manzil tak ponhch jana or magan ho jana un ahkamat main jo Allah pak ne Quraan a pak or Nabi Pak  (ﷺ) k  zariye hme diye hain..ye kam bs iradon main asan lgty hain magr Amal main bht mushkil..Amm insan or wali Allah main sb se bra frq ye h...